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It is not possible to get a divorce without any court involvement at all. However, some divorces involve a lot more involvement from the court than others. The main reason why the court will step in is if couples cannot come to agreements on their own.
In order to understand the court’s involvement in your divorce, it is helpful to know a bit about the divorce process in Texas:
The first potential court appearance happens when one spouse files for divorce. Although it was once always necessary to enter the court clerk’s office to file for divorce, it is now usually possible to file papers by mail or online, depending on your county.
Typically, you can download the forms on your county court website, fill them out, and file them electronically. We usually recommend that people seek the guidance of a divorce lawyer at this early stage. An experienced attorney will create a strategy to work towards the best possible outcome for your divorce. They can help you file divorce papers with this in mind and will ensure that everything is filled out correctly, which will help your divorce move forward smoothly.
Contested Divorces
A contested divorce is a divorce where ex-spouses cannot come to an agreement on all issues related to ending their marriage. When this happens, a Judge will have the final say, and you and your ex-spouse will need to go to court.
Divorce court proceedings can last for hours or even days, and before the final trial, spouses will need to attend several court hearings, such as Temporary Orders hearings, disputes over financial disclosures and more. Litigation attorneys will represent each spouse so that their interests are both put forward to the Judge individually.
Uncontested Divorces
In an uncontested divorce, couples are able to come to agreements on all key issues, usually with the help of a skilled lawyer who uses divorce mediation to help people resolve their differences.
If your divorce is uncontested, you may be able to simply submit your divorce settlement agreement along with other paperwork so that the Judge can approve it. If everything is in order, then your Order will be signed and you can obtain a certified copy of your final decree. Or you may still have to appear in court for a final hearing.
If you do have to attend court to finalize an uncontested divorce, it may be a brief appearance. The Judge may need to ask you a few questions to ensure that you meet the requirements for divorce and that you understand the agreement you have signed.
How to Avoid Court Hearings in a Texas Divorce
There are different ways to minimize court involvement in your divorce, known as alternative dispute resolution. These methods will help you come to your own agreement. At Skillern Firm Divorce & Child Custody Lawyers, we understand that each case is unique. We will take the time to listen to your individual circumstances and determine what methods will benefit you.
Mediation and Negotiation
In a divorce, you and your spouse have separate attorneys. Some divorce attorneys are trained mediators, or if a spouse’s attorney is not a trained mediator, then a separate professional may be brought in.
In divorce mediation, a trained professional will work with you and your spouse to help you find solutions to your differences. Typically, divorces involve issues such as:
- Whether one spouse will pay spousal support to the other, and if so, how much and for how long
- How you will divide your assets and debts, including what will happen to your family home
- Child custody arrangements, including a parenting plan
If using mediation, you can agree on all issues, then your divorce will continue as uncontested and will not require much court involvement. This can save time and money on court hearings and helps you and your ex-spouse to remain amicable. This can be particularly important if you have children.
It is important to recognize that a mediated divorce is not always possible. If there are high assets, a high degree of conflict, a history of domestic violence, or an imbalance of power, then court involvement may be necessary to ensure that your rights are protected.
Do I Need to Hire a Local Attorney to File for Divorce?
In Texas, it is possible to file for divorce without the help of a lawyer. However, this decision should not be made lightly. A divorce decree is legally binding, so it is important that you take the necessary measures to ensure that your rights are protected and that your child’s best interests are considered.
Making the decision to divorce is always difficult, and it is natural for emotions to run high. However, this can cloud judgment, and it is important that you do not agree to things without fully understanding the long-term implications.
At Skillern Firm Divorce & Child Custody Lawyers, we believe in empowering our clients with knowledge of the law so that they can make decisions from a place of clarity. We will guide you throughout the entire divorce process and always have your best interest at heart.
Your attorney will also make sure that all paperwork is filed correctly and on time to ensure that your divorce keeps moving forward. Guidance from an attorney will take away a lot of the stress and will help you to transition to your new life with confidence.