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Most men seeking attorney services for divorce have never required an attorney before. This can make the task of searching for the right representation overwhelming. Everyone claims to be the best, but it is important to distinguish between clever advertising and high-quality representation. If you require legal services for the divorce process, then it is essential that you have good legal advice from licensed attorneys who have the skills and experience necessary to navigate your case. After all, family law matters such as child custody, property division, and spousal support could affect you for the rest of your life. At Skillern Firm, although we believe that we are the right law firm to handle your case, we want you to be confident as well. Therefore, we are committed to providing you with all of the information you need so that you can make an informed decision, from a place of clarity.

Contact us today for an initial consultation at (936) 213-8479.

What To Look For in the Best Divorce Attorneys For Men

Although men and women must be treated equally under the law, meaning family courts should never favor women simply because of their gender, the reality is that often, men still face bias. This bias can result in unfavorable divorce decrees, which could place obligations and limitations on you for the rest of your life. For this reason, it is important that you seek a high-quality divorce attorney. 

Here are a few things to look out for a while making your decision:

Find an Attorney Who Specializes in Family Law

Good lawyers will specialize in a single practice area. If you find a lawyer that claims to do it all, then you should ask yourself whether they really have the experience and knowledge to handle your case. At Skillern Firm, all of our attorneys specialize in family law and divorce. Our dedication to these practice areas means that we handle cases similar to yours every day.

Proven Track Record

A good attorney will be willing to show you reviews from their previous clients and be able to showcase their previous wins in cases that are similar to yours. Always check independent review sites and ask to see referrals. If a law firm is unwilling to provide you with the evidence you need, then it’s probably best to stay clear. The managing attorney of Skillern Firm, Mathew Skillern, has an AVVO rating of 10.0. This is the highest possible rating that can be awarded and is based on factors such as the years the attorney has been practicing law, their awards, client reviews, and more.

Professional Associations and Honors

A great way to assess whether an attorney is as capable as they claim to be is to check their professional associations and honors. The state’s bar associations oversee each lawyer’s practice and ensure that they keep to a high standard. Our founding attorney, Matthew Skillern, is associated with the State Bar of Texas, the Houston Bar Association, and the Fort Bend County Bar Association. Honors are also important. They show that an attorney has been recognized and honored for their work. Matthew Skillern has received several awards, including Texas Super Lawyer 2010-2011 and 2015-2017.

Consider If They Have The Same Approach As You

When it comes to family law, you need support from someone with the same values as you. Good lawyers will also take the time to find out what’s important to you and will keep your best interests at heart.

Find an Attorney Who Prioritizes Mediation

At Skillern Firm, we prioritize mediation and negotiation throughout all divorce proceedings. That means minimizing court involvement wherever possible and helping you and your ex-spouse come to amicable agreements. You may not believe that you can sit down amicably with your ex-spouse, but many of our clients are surprised by what they can achieve with professional help. Mediation has many benefits, including:

  • Saving you time, as there is less need to wait for court dates.
  • Allows you and your ex-spouse to come to personalized agreements that work for you and which are not dictated by a judge.
  • Protects children from a lengthy and high-conflict court battle.
  • Protects the relationship between you and your ex-spouse, which also benefits children in the long run.

If an attorney is quick to turn to court proceedings to solve your issues, then you should look elsewhere. It is usually in your best interest to come to arrangements on your own. Although, you should also look for an attorney who is prepared to go to court if necessary.

Find an Attorney With Courtroom Experience

Sometimes ex-spouses cannot agree on every aspect of their divorce, or there may be barriers to negotiating with your ex-spouse, such as a history of abuse. It is therefore important that your attorney has extensive courtroom experience. At Skillern Firm, we are prepared to fight for your best interests in court if necessary. We have handled many complex cases and have the experience and skills necessary to navigate whatever your case entails.

Consider if You Will Have a Comfortable Relationship

You may spend a considerable amount of time with your divorce attorney, and they might help you navigate some highly personal matters. Therefore, it is essential that you feel comfortable speaking to them and you should feel that they are compassionate to your needs. Any high-quality law firm will offer an initial consultation before you agree to representation. This is the perfect opportunity to see how you feel speaking with them.

How Accessible Are They?

Although the best divorce attorneys for men will probably be in high demand and have a busy schedule, they should still be available to listen to you and take the time to answer any questions and queries you may have. You will not have 24/7 access to your attorney, but neither should you have to wait several days or even weeks before a reply.

Are They Local?

Some divorce lawyers are national, not local. Divorce laws change state by state, and it is important that your attorney is well versed in the laws of your state and has experience practicing in that state. Skillern Firm is a Texas-based law firm. We have in-depth knowledge of Texas divorce law, and we have represented cases in your local court. We may even know the Judge overseeing your case, which can help us navigate your case in the best possible manner. Our practice areas cover Houston, Sugar Land, Harris County, Fort Bend County, Katy, Cypress, and Montgomery County.

Personal Considerations

There may be additional considerations that are personal to your case. For example, if you have children, then you might be specifically looking for an attorney with expertise in child custody. If you are dealing with a high-asset divorce, then you need someone who has the experience to handle all the complexities that could arise.

Be Careful About Advertisements

Advertisements are cleverly developed by experts to attract your business. Just because someone has spent lots of money on a big, fancy advertisement, it does not necessarily make them the best attorney. Don’t rely on advertisement alone; make sure you check their reviews online, look at the information on their website, and speak to your potential attorney before you agree to representation.

How Do I Find the Best Divorce Attorney for Me? 

Choosing a divorce attorney is a highly personal decision. You need someone who is compassionate and understanding of your needs and who also has the resources they need to protect your future.

To make it easier, here are a few questions you can ask yourself to begin with:

  • Are there any key morals that are important to me and which I need my attorney to share?
  • Would a lawyer of the same gender make me more comfortable?
  • Can I speak openly with this person without feeling judgment?
  • What are the important issues in my case and what experience does this candidate have?
  • Has this candidate won cases that are similar to mine?
  • Have I seen independent reviews?

How to Find The Best Divorce Lawyer For Men

Finding the right attorney is an important decision that must be made with great care. You need support from someone with the skills and experience to handle your case, as well as someone who sympathizes with the special challenges men face. Men often pay large amounts in child and spousal support and can end up with limited access to their children. At Skillern Firm, we will make sure that you are treated fairly, all of your needs are considered and your rights are protected.

We specialize in family and divorce law and are committed to protecting your future. We prioritize the attorney-client relationship, which means we will tirelessly defend your rights while remaining compassionate. We offer an initial consultation so that you can assess if we are the right fit for your case.

Contact us today for your consultation at (936) 213-8479.

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